I've been waiting for this since last Wednesday!
How is it possible that they can do SO much to irritate the heck out of us??!
Does anyone else have a hubby that avoids doing the things you want him to do?? (Reason unknown? Maybe just to piss us off??) Does he avoid doing the things that you asked him really nicely to do over a week,month, or even a year ago?
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What really gets me is that fact that most of these things are right under his nose. It's not like they are out of sight and he forgets about them!! Some of them are things that he has to walk by or even step over every single day!! He knows that I would love if they got done,, yet,, he chooses not to do them, and then wonders why I get mad!
Of course, if I ask again, I'll just be a nag!
All of these "things" are projects that I would do if I could, but I can't! (hanging lights, putting bed together, hanging pictures, putting heavy bins in storage)
Things that really aren't a big deal! I mean, it's not like I'm asking him to build me a house, or redo my floors!! I'm sure if he spent 1 Saturday (god forbid) on doing the few little things around the house that I want done,, everyone would be much happier! Instead,, he's always got something else to do, someone else to help!!! He's good like that, always wanting to help everyone, but shouldn't I come first??!!!
It might seem silly to get upset over such small things, but when I'm sitting here all day, every day, I have nothing else to look at but these things that STILL AREN'T done!!! It could drive me to drink, seriously!! (It does some days).
So, what's a girl to do??!
Maybe I should just start stepping over his laundry!! What do you think???
Thats it! I feel better, I vented! Thanks for listening!
I'm beginning to think that even though you ladies wanted vent day, I'm the only one that needs to vent. Do you really want to see me end up in divorce?? lol
Remember if you don't feel comfortable leaving me a comment, you can email me and I will be sure to tackle your subject!!
Have a good one!
Tomorrow, we're going to touch on the 5 hardest things about being a MOM!!!
PS~~ I also thought you ladies might be interested in this article from Oprah.com. It is from the authors of the book that I mentioned about. It is long, but well worth the read! I can GUARANTEE that you will ALL enjoy it!