Ok, so I was going to write about Gracie, and her school, but I've changed my mind.
Instead I need to vent. About men..
How many of your men do things with you that YOU want to do? How many of your men will tag along with you, doing something they probably wouldn't choose to do, just to make you happy??
If you have a man like that,, kiss him!! Seriously, go kiss him.
My hubby, will not do ANYTHING that interests me... NOTHING.. If he doesn't want to do it. We don't do it, or I do it alone... END OF STORY!
My sister and I went on a Christmas Home Tour last year. It was amazing. Some of the homes we saw were out of this world. We got decorating ideas, design ideas, renovation ideas. A couple of times through the night we mentioned how much our hubby's would "love" to see certain houses.
Plus, there was food, there were drinks, we could go out after.. We could make a fun night of it..
That time of year is here again! So, on the weekend, I mentioned to Hubby, that it would be really fun if he and "brother in law" joined us...
His response ~ "UH... NO!! I have no interest in doing something like that... none.. If you want me to meet you for drinks after, fine, but I will not be going with you"
Tonight,, flipping through channels,, we see Dancing with the Stars... it was a really fun, sexy dance.
I say "We should do dance lessons again! We had so much fun when we did it" (we took dance lessons before our wedding)
His response~ "UH....NO!!"
Me~ "Come on! We had so much fun doing that, you know we did. Besides, we need to do something for US.. Something for US to have fun again"
HIM "UH...NO!!! That's fine, but it won't be dance lessons... pick something else"
I wonder what he will say next time he flips on the UFC and I say "UH NO!! I really have no interest in men beating the pulp out of each other"
Or maybe when his Christmas party comes this year, I will say " UH NO!! I really have no interest in dining and dancing with a bunch of people that I don't know. I don't feel like spending $400 on dress, hair, makeup, shoes, jewelry, hotel etc..to go hang out with YOUR work friends all night..
Or maybe the next time he wants to go to an antique market on a RAINY, COLD, Sunday morning to find a seat for the motorcycle that he is rebuilding, I will say "UH NO!!! I don't even like motorcycles, and it's raining!"
Do you get my point???
Am I the only woman who has a man like this??
What do you and your hubby do together that is just for you?? Something you both enjoy?!
(And keep it clean, I'm fully aware of the obvious!!) lol
Thanks for letting me vent ladies,, I needed it tonight!!
**** TO CLARIFY~ MY HUBBY IS AMAZING WHEN IT COMES TO DOING THINGS AS A FAMILY. WE HAVE FAMILY DAY, AND HE WILL WILLINGLY DO ANYTHING THAT I SUGGEST AS AN OUTING WITH THE GIRLS.
HE IS ONLY LIKE THIS WHEN I SUGGEST THINGS THAT I AM INTERESTED IN FOR THE TWO OF US TO DO TOGETHER.. IF HE'S NOT INTERESTED, HE DOESN'T WANT TO DO IT..
AS A FATHER THOUGH, HE ROCKS...
I DON'T THINK HE'S EMBARRASSED TO BE SEEN WITH ME IN PUBLIC OR ANYTHING,,,,LOL****
I APOLOGIZE TO MY HUSBAND FOR MAKING PEOPLE THINK OTHERWISE...